When love is in the air, and you get a whiff, it can be the most exciting time of your life, but we must train our noses to always sniff out the reality of situations. One key reality of romance is, “everyone isn’t looking for the same thing in their love life”. Some are merely looking for a physical relationship, while others are seeking unbreakable commitment and loyalty. Some are looking for their equal, to unlock the respect they need for their partner, while others are seeking out someone who is strong in the areas they are weak. No matter what your romantic pain points are, it is important to approach romance with the highest possible level of honesty. This is fundamental to being on one accord with your love interest.
When you understand your lover’s personality and what their ideal love life looks like, you’re empowered to make them happy. The sooner you get the reality of who your lover is, and what they want, the sooner you are empowered to make a truthful assessment of the relationship. When you feel you know your lover and what they want, you can decide if you want to continue investing more time and energy into the relationship, or if you want to look elsewhere for the romance you seek. A lot is packed into knowing someone and knowing what they want, especially because many people don’t know themselves good enough to say who they really are and what they really want. Ask yourself, “if you know who you are and what you want, what’s the risk of investing time and energy in a relationship with someone who doesn’t know who they are or what they want in that same area?”. If the answer is a risk that is too great, you may be in a relationship that adds too much confusion to your clarity.
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